try switching to ceramic croc dishes and moving them to the warm side... but make sure it doesn't start dripping off the lid. As for the female, take a seperate tote, fill it half way with 90 degree water (use a thermometer, our core body temps 98 degrees so it may not feel like you'd expect 90 degrees to feel), put her in it and put the lid on for about 30 minutes. See if that helps.