You know, you're a great guy and love your reptiles and I don't know why some people just love to keep pouring salt in an open wound. It really shows you how immature and what a bad character they have in general. I just would block the emails myself and not respond because there is NO reason why you have to continue to defend yourself when it was something that had a devastating effect on you already.
People really need to grow the hell up and stop being so judgmental.
You know you have our support and trust me, nobody is exempt from making errors or misjudging things. We are only human after all.