Welcome to Dark Side Dusten and to be honest with you I'm more at home here than I have ever felt on any forum because it's about the reptiles, not the egos and personal issues.
That's what a forum is for and it's hard for people to find help with others calling them names and being indifferent.
We all have a past online and Lady and I had differences but they are behind us and I'm sure if you are up front with her things stand a better chance of being resolved.
This site is about the animals not the personality conflicts :O) We all have something to offer in a positive manner not in a negative one.